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Family matters – Transfer of custody

Familiensachen - Sorgerecht übertragen
Machine translation of the German page, 2026-09-15. The German original is binding.
Married parents have joint parental custody (elterliche Sorge) of the child from birth. For unmarried parents, initially only the mother has custody. However, the parents can make a joint declaration of custody (Sorgeerklärung) before the Jugendamt (youth welfare office), through which both parents obtain joint custody. Even after the parents separate, joint custody generally remains in place. This is because the legislator assumes that joint custody is, in most cases, the best solution for the child. On application, however, the Familiengericht (family court) can transfer parental custody, or part of it (e.g. the right to determine residence, health care, school matters, etc.), to one parent, if this best serves the welfare of the child or if all parties involved agree. Transfer For unmarried parents, the father who does not have custody can apply for the transfer of joint parental custody, if this does not conflict with the welfare of the child. Note Before submitting the application, however, parents should make use of the relevant counselling services offered by the Jugendamt (youth welfare office) responsible for the child's place of residence. Given the significance of this decision for the family, consultation with a lawyer is also recommended.

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Requirements

• Best interests of the child (Wohl des Kindes) The transfer of custody (Sorgerecht), or of part of custody, to only one parent takes place only if this best serves the child's welfare or if all parties involved agree.

Documents you need

• Antrag auf Übertragung des Sorgerechts (application for transfer of custody) • An informal application is required, which can be submitted independently or with the help of the Rechtsantragsstelle (legal application office) of the Familiengericht (family court). • If, for married parents, a decision on parental custody (elterliche Sorge) becomes necessary during pending divorce proceedings, only a lawyer may file the custody application within the divorce proceedings. The option of submitting an informal application yourself does not exist in that case. • Exact details of the parents and the child When submitting the application, the following must be provided for the parents and the child: • Addresses, • Dates of birth, and • Nationalities. • Birth certificate of the child • Other documents/records If available, you should also enclose the following documents with your application: • Vaterschaftsanerkennung (acknowledgement of paternity) • Gemeinsame Sorgeerklärung (joint declaration of custody) • Marriage certificate • Divorce decree • Previous court decisions on custody • Description of the circumstances • Who currently holds parental custody? • What problems have occurred in the past, or are expected in the future?

Fees

• Court fees and, where applicable, lawyer's fees apply, calculated according to the value of the matter in dispute (Verfahrenswert). • In addition, there are expenses incurred by the court for matters such as service of documents, interpreters, court-appointed child advocates (Verfahrensbeistände), expert witnesses, etc.

Legal basis

• Bürgerliches Gesetzbuch (BGB, Civil Code) §§ 1626-1698 b - Parental custody www.gesetze-im-internet.de/bgb/BJNR001950896.html#BJNR001950 • Gesetz über das Verfahren in Familiensachen und in den Angelegenheiten der freiwilligen Gerichtsbarkeit (FamFG, Act on Proceedings in Family Matters and in Matters of Non-Contentious Jurisdiction) §§ 151 ff. - Proceedings in matters concerning children www.gesetze-im-internet.de/famfg/BJNR258700008.html#BJNR2587

Who is responsible

• In connection with a divorce, the Amtsgericht (local court – Familiengericht [family court]) handling the divorce proceedings has local Zuständigkeit (responsibility). • Otherwise, the Amtsgericht (local court – Familiengericht [family court]) in whose district the child habitually resides has Zuständigkeit (responsibility). • Note: In certain cases, a different court may also have Zuständigkeit (responsibility). You should therefore seek advice from a lawyer.

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